The Bachelor Diaries: On The Wings of Roslyn's Infidelity

It is on. What is it, you ask? It. Harrison. Roslyn. Arms folded grudge match. Is on. It. Plus some more crying from Ali I'm sure.

• Reliving Elizabeth's insanely awkward note reading ... coulda done without that.
• Just in case you can't tell what's "live" and what's not, the super duper not live stuff is the stuff where they've turned up the contrast so much that you kind of have to squint and everything is blurry. The really not live stuff is at normal contrast ... oh and is all happening in the fracking studio with the audience. Bungie jumping. Two dudes on a couch. Top of Coit Tower. Live studio audience. I wouldn't know which was which without the contrast.
• Oooooh, past season catch up when we get back. "You won't believe what happens when these people get together," says Harrison. Unless they combine forces to create the super large hadron collider, I'm probably gonna believe it.
  
• Jesse! My boy! GNARRRRRRR, dude!
• Nikki, I was so happy to have forgotten you.
• Did Wes just say nipple? I ran it back 4 times and can't say for sure that he's saying nipple. He uses nipples to quantify his good times?
  
• To recap ... nope. No super large hadron collider. Just drinking, flirting and making out.
• Oops, wait apparently "with great success comes ..." the need to work with 5th graders and paint life guard stands. Not exactly as quotable as Uncle Ben, but I guess it works.
• The Bachelor and someone named Mike Fleiss gave money to Ellen? Who's Mike Fleiss? Oh.
  
• Harrison says "the most memorable women are here tonight." Which girls watching at home just started crying?
• Ashley, I haven't forgotten about you.
  
• Did Gia just say that Tenley shits rainbows? Where was this personality during the season, Gigi?
• These stories about Roslyn are easily the most interesting stories from the whole season. The season has been that bad.
• Pot shots Harrison has taken at Michelle tonight ... at least 5. Don't pick on the crazy ones, Harrison. They don't know you're making fun of them half the time.
• All things considered, props to Michelle's crazy ass. She defended herself well against Harrison, Ali's "look at me" interruption and her own condemning footage.
  
• How many more viewings before Jake double closing Ali's limo door is not funny? 100? 1,000?
• What the hell is going on? Ali just apologized to Vienna and asked others to stick up for her.
• Looks wise, I'll say it. I'm not mad at Ashleigh or Elizabeth.
• Of all the cruel ironies, why did they reunite Roslyn with her steamy staffer during the walk through the back halls of the studio?
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• Harrison, we see that ring on your finger. No reason to try to score points with Roslyn.
• "Son, isn't the simplest story the truth?" Yes. Yes it is, Dr. Phil.
  
• How in the hell do they not have any footage of this?
  
• I know what would settle this once and for all. Have her try on the glove!
  
• How great would it be if Roslyn really was telling the truth and all the girls met late one night and formulated this conspiracy? At this point, that's my greatest hope for the outcome of this story.
• "Back by popular demand, your bachelor, Jake!" You go to hell, Harrison. You go to hell and you die!
• "When we were sitting on that bench, my heart was crying." I loathe this man.
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• Most unexpected tears of the night: Kathryn. No question. Did you WATCH the show? This guy sucks! What are you crying about?
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• I told you you blew it with Christina, Jake.
  
• ANOTHER pot shot at Michelle. Chris is ruthless tonight.
• For those scoring at home, it's 9:48pm and Steve just went upstairs and put himself to bed. Night, Steve.
• These outtakes are tremendously tremendous. (USA! USA! USA!) Harrison's response to what he uses on his teeth is my fav. And Ashleigh's send off.
• And someone get Corrie and Tenley their own show.

Next week on The Bachelor, we find out who's on the next DWTS!!! Oh and Jake picks between "sugar and spice." Which one's which exactly?

More importantly, the guy that watched Roslyn why she packed her bags and walked her to the studio tonight ... is named Paulie. And he's single!

The Bachelor Diaries: On The Wings of Fantasy Suites

Okay, it's time for the episode where all the actual dates are just prelude to a phone call from Ms. Career Woman Ali. So much for Eyes On The Prize. Oh and I forgot about the fantasy suites ... probably because the idea of Jake making a move on these chicks is about as natural as a jet planes. Aviation.

• The throwbacks to night one are kinda fun. Tenley's name is "Tenley ... like the number ten." Cute.
• Holy crap Vienna was the girl that asked to see Jake's abs straight out of the limo. I can't even imagine all the other ladies watching that episode back.
• "So I've watched about 5 minutes of this season and I hate this dude." My ever-wise roommate Dave, everybody.
• Ali is back "home" which looks a lot like a hotel room ... and sleeps with pictures of Jake by her bed. What do you call someone that puts food on the shelves at a grocery store? A stalker, that's right. (Wrong spelling, but go with me, people.)
• 2 thoughts about Gia and Jake's time in the city. 1) There's not even a word for how annoying Gia is. 2) Jake can not dance. At all.
• Wait a minute. Leap of faith ... jump of the dock into the ocean. Oh. Oh I see what you did there. Not even close to clever or charming.
• Ugh. Jake dons the necklace.
• Here's a sampling of convo during dinner. Jake: "You're very deep." Gia: "... Like, more than I would ever open up, like, really, like you don't even -- you don't even know." Deep indeed, Jake. Deep.
• Somehow the men's snowcross on the olympics has pulled me away from this deep conversation. This course is insane.
• "Eh ha. I'm ready to use the key. Eh ha!" She's deep and not shy ... and annoying beyond words.
• Tenley arrives just in time for 1,000th helicopter ride in Bachelor history!! You figure they would have rolled out some balloons or some confetti or something.
• Tenley thinks Jake loves to dance? Someone roll the Gia date for her.
• Fantasy Suite? More like Can't-asy suite! Cuz Tenley has only been with one man ... in case you hadn't heard Tenley the first 489 times. What? No recycling of jokes allowed?
• "This came from Chris Harrison ... and I'm really excited about it," says Jake. Holy crap, you sold her, Jake. I might actually be impres -- nah, can't go that far.
• Euphemisms for sex learned during tonight's show ... Tenley: "moving forward." Gia: "Ready to use the key."
• Oh no, they've shifted to pairs figure skating on the other TV. I'm forced to watch the rest of this date.
• Onto Vienna's date ... Putting an eye patch on Jake is like putting a birthday hat on a dog. He's immediately disoriented and he's gonna squirm uncomfortably until he figures out a way to get it off.
• "I don't care if we're in St. Lucia or Texas, I just want to be with him." What are you trying to say, Vienna? What are you trying to say?
• Well this date is mostly unbearable. Hey look, I was a one-year-old lush!
• Gist of the dinner date as best I can tell ... there will be no suspense when it comes to fantasy suite choice time.
• Tenley's euphemism for the evening: "show him another side of me." No real need for euphemism in this case.
• Uh, so much for suspense of the next segment ... looks like Ali's headed for Lucia.
• Why do they even bother asking for bachelor and bachelorette nominees on the website? How long has it been since we've had a newcomer as the main character? If only I had the past 5 or so odd seasons documented somehow ... shit.
• Key quote from the Jake/Ali phone convo: "Ehhhhhh." Ali's got a real way with words. I can see why he asked her back.
• Wow, looks like the damn editors at ABC got me again. Jake makes a stand. In your face, Ali! Aviation!
• That was a really really really long segment to end up right where we were at the end of the last episode.
• Gia's head tilt during her video diary makes me want to jam handfuls of marbles into my eyes.
• For the sake of drama, I hope he drops Vienna mostly cuz I think her freak out would involve the most acting out. Gia would probably cry and do an annoying whimper very similar to her annoying laugh. And dumping Tenley at this point would just be too cruel for words.
• This has to be one of the most numbing episodes in Bachelor history. I'm averaging 0.67 comments per segment over the last 4 segments.
• First draft pick - Tenley. Very impressive turn around for her.
• Oh Gia. Gia Gia Gia. Your mom was way off, right?! Lesson learned: don't listen to your mom after she's only known a guy for 2 hours.
• Did anyone else catch the giant smile on Harrison's face as he walked in to give Gia the boot? Dude was downright giddy.
• Gia's complete acceptance of all this is ... bizarre. Sad and bizarre.
• Oh and I just noticed she's wearing the necklace thing on her wrist. Please take it off for your own dignity. Good gravy.
• What is this dirt road they're taking Gia away on? Are they going to ... take care of her? Seems like the airport would be on a paved road.
• Jake puts the cherry on top of the most awkward toast of the season with not only a group hug but talk of how hard it was to get rid of Gia. Smooth as always.
• Be proud, ladies. Jake thinks you're "the best of the best."

Next week, good times with the return of the crazies from this season. And enough non-verbal reactions from Vienna and Tenley to keep us all guessing.

The Bachelor Diaries: On The Wings of Self Loathing

Well here we are again. Looks like we're in for another week of interaction that leaves you wondering "what exactly do they see in this guy besides the aviation and the abs?" At least we get some funny accents and a lot of dramatic leaning.

• Fashion question - long sleeve shirt while wearing shorts and flip flops ... better than a hoodie leather jacket?
• "That's the empire state building with the thing on the top." Really, Gia? Really?
• Amazing conversationalist moment #1: "So this is where you're from."
• Good news! The mega-annoying laugh has been upgraded to hyperultra-annoying.
• "He always as they say 'has my back.'" Who's they, Gia's mom? I don't think anyone knows what you mean.
• Gia's brother Erick's hair takes the blowout to new levels. In your face, Pauly D.
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• Gia's mom is a cliche machine. She's a multi-conglomerate cliche factory. "Reach for them stars, but keep one foot on that ground." She likes to throw in her own little twists though ... obviously.
• Onto Ali's town ... full leg and arm clasp hug count: 2. Are they coached on these greetings?
• Amazing conversationalist moment #2: "There's a lot of leaves."
• Ali: "My mom is not an easy lady ..." she says "... to impress." Whew. That was about to get awkward there.
• I'll confess to spending the majority of the Ali family dinner date trying to figure out what was wrong with Gretzky during the Olympic opening ceremonies last night. Did that dude have to use the restroom or something?
  
• Just got snapped back into focus when Ali said she'd marry Jake today. I'm guessing Jake would like to see her open up a bit more. It's gonna be tough when she has all these walls up.
• Hmmm, looks like Tenley's date is not going to be a big upper and it looks like Ali loses it later.
• Aaaaaaand the streak is broken. No leg clasp from Tenley. Damn your walls, Tenley. Damn them!
• I wonder what Mia would have to say about Tenley's routine? Or even Jill?
• Unlike Gia's mom, Tenley isn't interested in Jake having her back, she just hopes that "We'll be a we." Tenley's a cliche innovator.
• If you ever want Jake to say the word "aviation" just say something like "You saw what Jake loves" and then pause for 0.25 seconds. Guaranteed he says "aviation" with an especially pompous tone.
• The Tenley dinner in a word: eeeeeemotions.
• Jake to Tenley's dad: "I guess what I'm asking is ... can I marry your daughter ... assuming I pick her from the 4 girls I'm currently dating that is."
• Tenley's dad, thanks for playing along. Really, we appreciate it, but c'mon you're not really granting your marital blessing after 2 hours, right?
• Onto Vienna's date. Of course she lives in Florida. Reminds me of a segment that Carolla used to do on his radio show called "Germany or Florida" where someone would read a news article about some crazy person doing something insane and then Carolla would guess if the story originated in Germany or Florida. Vienna is one giant game of Germany or Florida.
  
• Jake goes 2 for 4 with leg clasps. You can't win 'em all, Jake.
• Jake also goes 2 for 4 with dates involving boats which leads to this exchange ...
• Vienna: "You do know how to drive a boat, right?" Jake: "Aviation. Er, I mean. Yes."
• Hey, Vienna's dad, I've got 2 words for ya. Consider Lasik.
  
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• Is Vienna adopted? Honestly she looks nothing like these people.
• So Ali has to go home cuz of her job? But she checks her email on the weekends, what more do these corporate slave drivers want!?!? Probably for her not be gone for weeks at a time dating a pilot.
  
• This is the look of a chick that just remembered how much she hates her competition ... and is ready to jet.
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• Also, is this a hair style that Ali is rocking? Or is it just ... hair?
• Crap I just remembered a clip from "this season on the bachelor" with Ali that hasn't happened yet. So much for the suspense. See you on the exotic date.
• This is why I watch the Bachelor. I think this is why we all watch the Bachelor. She held this pose for a good 15 seconds.
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• Huh. I guess my memory failed me. Later, Ali.
• I hope that Gia, Vienna and Tenley have all stood in silence this whole time. Possibly an occasional laugh out of nowhere from Gia that makes the other two roll their eyes.

Next week, Jake puts on a necklace. I think some other stuff happened, but I was too thrown off by the necklace to notice.

A thought about the (not) free Grand Slam at Denny's

Stories like this make me crazy. In case you missed it, Denny's announced free Grand Slam breakfasts to all takers today, 2/9/10 between 6am to 2pm. I realize this sounds like the unimaginable free meal at first glance, but ...

It's not.

Chipotle did something similar in Arizona last year. Pouncing on the Cardinals heading for the Super Bowl, patrons that wore red got a free burrito on 1/31/09. Again, this meal was far from free.

But Luke, it's literally free. How can it not be free? What part of "free" don't you understand?

Look at the lines in these shots. I actually tried to participate in the Chipotle promo and the line was out the back door when I arrived. Same happened today at every Denny's in the universe.

Lines = time. Time is not free. Let's do some quick math.

• Assume you make $10/hr.
• Assume you have to spend 2 hours standing in line (aka not at work) to get your free meal and then an hour sitting at the table.
• $10/hr times 3 hours = free! Woops, nope. Actually it's $30.

You just gave up $30 of your time to get a free meal that costs you $5 under normal circumstances.

On the other hand, if you go to Denny's tomorrow on your lunch hour ...

• No wait (cuz it's Denny's) = $0.
• Lunch hour meal = $0 in lost wages.
• $5 Grand Slam plus soda and tip = $10.

$30 for a free meal today. Or $10 for a not free meal tomorrow. Hope you made the right choice.

The Bachelor Diaries: On The Wings of Reeeeveeeenge!!

Well I just did some yoga and now I'm sitting down for a nice bachelor blog. All elements of masculinity have left my being. Awesome. The title of this week's blog is in the hopes that Eyes On The Prize Ali really lays the smack down ... on everyone. Harrison has my hopes high via "this week on The Bachelor." Get it on!!!

• This week's leather jacket mod ... a hoodie. How very Mayer of you, Jake.
• On the surface, I'll say this, Jake. Not too rough on the eyes, this crowd.
• Two responses to Tenley realizing she's having the first date. 1) She reads her name has no reaction at all. And then reads "Let's get our love on track in San Francisco" and FREAKS OUT. What the hell? Did she not recognize her own name? Why the delayed freak out? 2) Do you think Gia learned this move from her last boyfriend Carl Pavano.
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• Plenty more details on Gia and all the other ladies including possible spoilers here if you're interested. Good lookin' out, Ando.
  
• Yes! Ali and Vienna group date. Shit is going down. It is going down!
• F you, Corrie! You tricked me! I don't take kindly to tricksters.
• Hmmm, this cat fight is much more boring and annoying than I would have expected. They both make no sense.
• Write your own fortunes? Barf, hurl, etc. I'd be better off back on the yoga mat.
• Jake's giant wooden chest arrives. Gia: "What is all this?" Tenley: "This is a whole lot of clothes to choose from." I can see why Jake likes her sense of humor.
• Word count of the Gia/Vienna data so far. Vienna: 3,487. Gia: "This is crazy." 3 if you're scoring at home.
• On the bright side, no more horrible giddy laughter from Gia. In its place: insane insecurity. She's very dynamic, that Gia.
• Personally I could have handled more of the Vienna wanders the castle with a lamp montage. Wait, no. What's the opposite of more?
• So Vienna's eye make up during the confessional ... she was going for Skeletor?
• So Jake's got Corrie on the boat and he ... wipes crums off her face and doesn't kiss her?
• Holy balls I want to smash this keyboard this is so awkward!! Too close for missiles, switch to guns and make your damn move!
• I'd like to call into question Jake's shoes during the aquarium date. That is all.
• Not to look too far ahead, but we might as well not even set up a fantasy suite for Corrie's final date, right?
  
• Is it just me or did Ali and Corrie wear virtually the same outfit for their respective dates?
• This insanely bubbly side of Ali ... not into it. She LOVES the clenched teeth high pitch voice move. "I'm sooovvvvvexcvivvtedvvvv!!"
• "What's that? A crab? ... Well he scored on that one didn't he?" I officially hate this guy.
  
• I tried to listen to Ali and Jake's Vienna conversation, but I honestly couldn't. I'd ask what happened but I don't even care at this point.
• "You want to jump in the water? And when I say 'jump in' I mean run towards the water and then stop quickly and get our pants all wet."
• If Jake is one thing, it's well spoken. "I can't believe we have to do this again. It's just like ... gaaaa." Actual quote. Verbatim. And he accompanied it with this face ...
  
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• This is your bachelor, America. Shoot me. Shoot us all.
  
• "Just because I'm a virgin doesn't mean I'm not in touch with my sensual side," says Corrie. I believe her, yo. I don't know why but I do.
• Jake to Corrie: "You are not any different than how I hoped you would be." What. Does that even. MEAN!?!? Is this what passes for charming these days?
• So Gia says that Jake passed a test of hers. Unless I heard her wrong, the test was "what does a guy do when he has the opportunity to sleep with another girl while I'm upstairs?" You're a real slave driver, Gia.
• Aaaaaaaaand the giddy laugh is back. I'm just dry heaving at this point I've barfed so much.
• Harrison! Oh I've never been so happy to see you. Bless you, sir, for you mark the end of the episode.
• They're RE-PLAYING the "it's okay to fall" clip? All testosterone has exited my body having had to see that scene twice.
• I think Jake could have summited the Everest of awkward if he had put his legs over Harrison during the interview ... you know, he doesn't want Harrison to feel left out.
• Doh! Corrie gets the boot. I was really looking forward to the fantasy suite exchange.
• I liked Corrie. I'll admit it. She's the only one that didn't seem to go all weirdo in the environment of the show.
• I know Family Guy says to always end on a good joke, but I've got nothing. You're sucked the life out of me, Jake and co.
  

Next week, home town time. Looks like Vienna's dad and Gia's mom are NOT going to disappoint. And Harrison has more tricks up his sleeve. He better protect Gia's hawwt.

The Bachelor Diaries: On The Wings of Pyromania

From what I understand, this is the episode Cougar tries to make a transition to Ice Man ... except with fire, a rose fire. Not the best opening ever, I'll admit. Quick -- to the bullets!!

• The ladies fill in quite nicely in Liz's absence when it comes to the non-verbal reactions to Harrison. Raised eyebrows, I like that. Exaggerated exhale, yes, work it! Glancing left to right, no! No! No good!
• Harrison, answer me something, buddy. What did you think the ladies thought the RVs were for besides loading into them and traveling in them? Last I checked RVs were pretty much designed for a single purpose.
  
• Side note: why did Ali climb into the luggage compartment?
• The ladies have assigned RVs like assigned seats in 2nd grade? Odd.
• Did Ella just rock a "rollin' with the homies?" RIP, Brittany Murphy.
• Having seen the ladies' "home" videos, I just may never turn on my Flip video again.
• You set up a tent in a vineyard, Jake? Or a field of grapes? Seriously dude, which is it?
• Ali is breaking down the match ups. This is pretty awesome. She just basically asked for the ball on the post against Vienna and even said she'd "take one for the team." We like sports and we don't care who knows!
• Okay, stilettos, fear of RVs and lack of knowledge about portable showers aside, Gia's girly-isms are getting to be a little much. The hair tosses and the giggles are kinda not working.
• Hmmm, 2 person spin the bottle. Wonder how this is gonna turn out. Barf.
• I never imagined turning on Gia so quickly. The laugh. Is. KILLING me.
• The date card arrives ... "Next stop: falling INN love." Hmmm, let me guess. It's gonna be a date at a STOP sign. No? We're going to see the Nic Cage blockbuster NEXT? No? Well, whatever it is it better not having anything to do with a quaint motel ... cuz I hate those.
• Cry time for Gia. Cue the piano rendition of "On The Wings of Annoying Laugh".
• Okay, the RV'ing, the dune buggying, the sand surfing ... I'm starting to wish I was on this date. PS Jake, you suck at sand surfing.
• What the hell? An INN? I warned you, Jake!
• Why is this Ashleigh/Jake convo so awkward? I'd recommend skipping it all and just going in for the kill there, Ice Man. I think that would go over a lot better than "but anyway" and "what else?"
• You know what Ali is? Aware of her surroundings. She's doing the damn rose countdown with Jake himself. Eyes on the prize, Ali.
• Giving a speech where you talk about someone without mentioning their name til the end ... seems difficult judging by the number of "ya know's" that Jake just dropped.
• We're onto hour 2 on abc.com and for those scoring at home, I just chose "normal commercial breaks" instead of watching an extended commercial at the start ... I didn't see that coming.
• The name "Big Sur" has always perplexed me. Why did they leave off the "f" from surf and/or why didn't they spell "sir" correctly. Answer right here: "the name originates from Rio Grande del Sur, the biggest river in the South." What you've got there is a not-so-fun fact. A boring fact.
• Per Ms. Rose, Jake just dropped the first "how are you?" of the night by my count ... and this was after a dinner's worth of conversation with this chick.
• Uh oh, Kathryn. The last girl that tried out frustration-crying during a date ... it didn't end so well for that young lady.
• Also, Kathryn, I just had to go look up your name. Not a good sign considering this bachelor has yet to burn any roses yet tonight.
• Nothing says you aren't getting a rose like starting a conversation with "I think you're such an amazing person."
• The DOUBLE boot? Wow. We haven't seen a move like this since Big Swayze. I'm starting to be impressed here, Ice Ma--er, I mean, Cougar.
• Is it odd to anyone else that the ladies are sad about reducing their competition by 2 instead of 1?
• Like Ando said ... "this is the first of many decisions I'm gonna make that no one's gonna understand ... and it's only gonna get worse." Really might be THE quote in Bachelor history (you heard me, Harrison).
• Only way to follow up a quote like that ... cry in the shadows of the cabin and then chuck a rose in the fire. Reasonable. Logical. I like it. Classic "if a, then b" scenario.
  
• Honestly what does that quote even mean? Only gonna get worse for Jake? He realizes he's the one making the decisions, right?
• I'll say it, the leather jacket over the suit jacket ... is not working, Jake.
• You know what Jake is all about? Shots. Tell us something we don't know.
• "So how you doing?" count - 2.
• Allie's awareness continues by openly discussing Jake's "move" from the previous night and boosting the guy's ego and complementing his decision making skills in the process. Eyes on the prize.
• "How are you?" - 3.
• "So how are ya?" - 4. Good lookin' out, J-Ro.
• It's official, everyone. The Bachelor has gone fully digital. No more phone number if you want to nominate a bachelor. I think this is what the inventors of the Internet were hoping for. I really do.
• "Gia, Tenley, you've already received roses this week ... aaaaand you're not boning any of our staffers ... (that we know of) ... so you've got nothing to worry about." Honestly, shouldn't he have to say that every time for at least this season?
• Hey Gia, that cross legged stance thing is cool and all, but cut it out.
  
• I appreciate that Jake is laying out a pecking order while giving out the roses.Ali first and then Corrie. All according to plan so far.
• Awkward pause ... and let's get dramatic, everyone! Look out, we've got bad lighting, an assistant producer with a clip board and a not-so-steady cam. Shit is going down, people. It is going down!
• Even Seacrest would be proud of this cliff hanger commercial break.
• I appreciate so much about Harrison's phrasing. 1) "There are two women in there that are definitely not going to be your wife" and 2) "we'll take care of it."
• Harrison: "You want me to take away one of the roses?" Jake: "Well if I could burn one of them, that'd be preferable, but I guess taking it away will work."
• Jake is like Crazy Gideon tonight. Everything must go! He is stacking them high and letting them fly! Because he's crazy!
• Except for Vienna. She must stay ... and drive every other woman on the earth insane apparently.
• And the non-verbal award of the night goes to Corrie. This face says "You're welcome, Jake. I'll hang in there and believe in you. You can be my wingman any time."
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Next week, "it's not about sex appeal. It's about heart appeal." And cat fights, Jake. Don't forget about those. Eyes on the prize.

The Bachelor Diaries: On The Wings of Drama, Episode 3

I'll admit to being pretty unexcited for this season before it started, but it's probably time to recognize. This biz has been pretty gd action packed and there doesn't seem to be any slowing down. Michelle continues her crazy spiral. Liz continues being a tease. And ABC keeps rolling out washed up celebrities.

• Jake rolls out the bike again and the quarter of the way zipped up jacket. At least he let the girl wear jeans this time.
• Thank the good Harrison, I was about to lose it if I wasn't treated to a helicopter ride soon. On the chopper blades of love! -- oh wait, wrong song.
  
• Why don't the girls like Vienna again? Honestly I don't remember ... cuz she's 23? Cuz they love extreme sports and she doesn't?
• Jake's panic mode pre-bungy is pretty awesome. Kinda reminds me of another pilot that sorta lost it in a pressure-filled situation.
• Let's recap Vienna and Cougar's date. "There are no words to describe it." I've got one: boringbeyondwords.
• So let me get this straight ... Michelle DOES want to get to know Jake? Or not? Is she just in a constant state of 68% of the way to crying?
• Let's take a moment during this unending life draining date to ask the following. How many of these girls would say yes to a proposal from Jake right now? 80%? Higher? The way these girls audition for the show knowing so much about him, they already come in knowing what they need to know, right? Unless it turns out he's put on 50 pounds or became a monk with a vow of silence, these chicks are in, right?
• Assuming the last bullet is true, it does kinda make sense that the last few groups of Bachelorettes are generally attractive and generally come with baggage, right? If you're a producer and you know all these girls are already ready to marry the dude, you're gonna cast with maximum drama in mind, no?
• What just happened?Man I hope I didn't black out and wax poetic about the bachelor for 100+ words.
  
• Did Cougar just include "Little Nicky" in Lovitz' list of credits? Wow. I take back what I said about him being washed up. I had no idea Little Nicky scored in the double digits on Rotten Tomatoes.
• Okay, I'll ask again. Why do I assume everyone I see on reality TV is older than me by default? Is this just me? Every time they tell me that Ashleigh is 25 and that Gia is 26, I have to do a double take.
• All jokes aside, this stand up comedy date is not funny at all. See what I did there? With the jokes aside? And the not funny at all? No? It was a play on words. Okay I'll stop.
• Will she or will she not murder someone during this season? I put it at about 50/50.
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• Being the girl that tells the bachelor about the girl no one likes is like being the second guy in a fight in the NBA. You're the one that's gonna get penalized.
  
• "I came here to ..." has officially overtaken "here for the right reasons" now that Roslyn's gone.
• Do you know why Corey's stand-up about Vienna was funny? Because it was true. Thanks, Ali. I hadn't quite put it together yet.
• "I believe you." Well said, Jake. Well said.
  
• Bravo, Jake. You made Michelle's psycho spiral hit rock bottom. I wonder if she murdered the cab driver ... or possibly asked him to help get her mom some grandchildren? Again I think it's 50/50.
• "I never imagined in a million years that we'd go on a helicopter ride," says Ella. I hate to disagree, but I did imagine, Ella. I did imagine it.
• All jokes aside ... I have no jokes about the Ella date. Parenthood is serious, everyone.
• I'll say 2 things about this cocktail party. 1) Despite all the drama, everything is still a lot more mellow now that Michelle's gone. The chances of someone getting cut are back to a normal level. And 2) one of the girls that I've never seen on this show is wearing a DRESS. Woah.
• One thing that really helps keep expectations low on a kiss that may never come ... talking about it for flipping hours with everyone in earshot including the dude who just may be the recipient of said kiss ... maybe ... someday ... but probably not. I'd bring out that football again real quick, Liz.
• Ladies, Jake, there's no way you don't know why I just emerged from the shadows to tell you. Last rose, etc. My job is extremely repetitive.
• Apparently the dress' name was Valishia. Who knew?
• Hhhhhhyyaaah. Awkward goodbye between Liz and Jake. At least you get to do your exit interview while freezing!
  

Next week: road trip! And Jake commits rose arson! Harrison might actually have to re-think his trademark line. Ladies, Jake, this is the final rose of the night ... that isn't going in the fire.